LET’S ARGUE!
What if I told you some women are not as attached to men as they may seem. Many women may be chasing the ever elusive and rare vaginal orgasm that only seems to happen when in a very particular headspace. A headspace that feels like emotional security.
The vaginal orgasm feels more intense and is shown to increase chances conception! So nature made it to where you may only get one of these heart thumping orgasms with invested partners. That’s better for survival. So some women rush in relationships knowing up front red flags are present, because they are trading their sex for intimacy. I know it looks pretty desperate guys but in a way she’s doing the same thing you are doing. Chasing the high of sex. Female orgasms are clitoral upwards of 80% of the time and require friction even when being penetrated. We don’t tell you this as it would probably ruin your erection. When being penetrated while experiencing a clitoral orgasm it mimics the vaginal orgasm so a penis is literally a bonus. Most women are not stimulated visually and don’t get turned by looking at pictures of body parts. It ( pics) register in our mind somewhere between a crime scene severed body part and a magazine ad for a cute top.
We want sex just as intensely as men and probably only think about it less because it requires less thought to obtain. Be careful with your heart fellas. Sometimes we are not looking for love. We just want a particular type of sex that feels secure.... it’s cold outside. Sweatpants season is in full effect. Some like to make you feel like they “REALLY CARE” how big it is when the average vagina is about 4-5 inches deep and a penis much much more than that is uncomfortable, unhealthy and undesirable too often. In short, there is an elaborate dance of seduction for a woman. She knows with in the first 5 minutes if she’s interested in sex. The next part is making you feel like you chased her while being in control. The last is a weird balance of not crushing your ego knowing she just needs some masculine friction (if it’s just a hook up ) while getting you to say emotionally connected things so she can have an orgasm that brings a single tear to her eye. One last thing.... many women would take girth over length any day of the year. 🤷🏽♀️
